You don’t have to be a flirting pro to join dating sites and meet people online. However, when you start going to real dates, you need to learn how to make a move without seeming like a creep. Otherwise, you will get stuck in the friendzone and we all know how impossible it is to get out of it. So, before you start asking girls out, here are several tips that will help you master the art of flirting.
You want to come across as a guy who is charming and cute, not like a dude who will go through her underwear drawer and sniff her panties when she takes him home. So, try not to stare at her without even blinking when making an eye contact. It is creepy, and it will scare her off.
This girl has spent several hours getting ready for your date, so you need to acknowledge it. Keep in mind that compliments are a form of art and you need to focus on what you are saying. Otherwise, you will just blab out something inappropriate. The nature of your first compliment should not be sexual, so don’t tell her that her boobs look amazing or that you would lick ice cream off her booty. You will just seem like a huge douche who wants to get in her pants and your date will be over.
When it comes to food, stick to what you know
Maybe you want to impress your date by ordering something you’ve seen on Instagram or heard about on TV. However, if you have no idea what it’s about, you may want to skip it. Stick to what you know, that way you will be able to order a meal or a drink with confidence, instead of ending up with something you cannot even put in your mouth.
Pay attention to where and how you are sitting
When you take a girl out on a date, you don’t want to sit at the bar facing the bartender! Instead, find the corner of the bar where you can face each other. That way you will be able to connect with your date, rather than the guy serving you drinks.