It’s no wonder that many guys are interested in cougar dating, since these women are sexy, confident, mature and experienced. They want a guy who will rock their world, but they are very picky. They don’t want some douchebag with no manners and no brain. Although they are looking for a fresh meat, they prefer guys who act like gentleman and who know how to lead a conversation. Here are several tips which should make your cougar purr.
Don’t ‘be too handsy
Although you might think that touching her on the first date shows that you’re into her, but this could backfire. She might think that you are like that on every date, and even cougars want to feel special. So limit your touching to natural and friendly one. It’s fine to take her hand to help her out of your car, or put your hand on her lower back to lead her through a crowded restaurant. But don’t put your arm around her and keep it that way through the whole date. You will seem desperate.
Talk to her
Chatting on cougar dating sites is easy, but talking face to face might be difficult. Even if you are a strong and silent type speak up. Otherwise she might think that you are emotionally closed off or simply boring. Either way, date number two won’t be in your future. If you are afraid you won’t have much to talk about over dinner, invite her to do something you know a lot about. This way you will always have something to say. Just don’t invite her to a keg party.
Don’t be cheap
Although she probably has more money than you, offer to pay for dinner. Reach for the check and let her order whatever she wants. If you’re cheap with money, she might think that you are cheap in bed, too. If you are afraid you won’t be able to afford a fancy date, then simply don’t go on one. Take her to places where you know you can afford the dessert menu. Even a better solution is to be creative. Go on a picnic or mini golfing. Keep in mind that when you date a cougar you can’t take her anywhere. She is still a classy lady and she wants to be treated like one.