Tips From One BBW To Another: How To Behave On A First Date

Tips From One BBW To Another

First dates are awkward most of the time. However, there are always those second dates when you are more relaxed and you can see whether your potential match was just nervous or you simply have nothing in common. But, sometimes you just know there isn’t going to be a second one, because the first date was a torture. Babbling about everything is fine, but there are some subjects you should steer clear of. If you found a date on One BBW and you are going out, here are some topics you should avoid.

The Ex factor

This conversation is never a good idea. If you are praising your ex, your date will think that you are still in love with him. If you are trashing him, you will seem bitter and not ready to move on. It is a lose-lose situation, so avoid bringing up your ex. Focus on the present, your date and his qualities. Talk about what he likes to do in his spare time, about his favorite vacation destinations or pets. There is so much to talk about, there is need to bring up your ex.

Politics or religion

These topics are something that must be discussed further down the road, but definitely not on your first date. These are very tricky subjects and you can easily offend your date, People are very passionate about their political and religious preferences, so find something else to talk about.

Money

When you are BBW dating, avoid talking about money. It will make you seem like you are a gold digger or very superficial. If you talk about how much money you earn, you will come off as a show off, and no one likes people who brag too much.

Marriage or kids

Down girl, it is only your first date. Stop imagining your house with white picket fence and four kids running around.  Don’t tell him that you already have your dream wedding dress picked out or your children’s names. Well, you can if you want to see a human shaped hole in the restaurant wall. Don’t start planning your life with him before you get to really know him. It is not bad to be one of the BBW singles and you are not in a rush to find a partner at any cost. Take your time and find your perfect match before you start hearing wedding bells.

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